Whether I feel positive or negative, I will be going through the same thing. So what can I do? I told mum I would have an easy life if I don't have kid. Would she prefer I don't have kid? Of course it's going to be very tough to raise a kid without a maid or the support of family. But hey, when tough gets going, the going gets tough. With the love and support from each other, terry and I can get through this. :)
YESSS!!! I am the QUEEN at my own house but not in KK!!!!!!!!! It much stressful and tougher when staying with my PARENT!!!! They break all my RULES!!! *sigh*
Most likely they will scold your kids which are quite 'okay' or just their natural develoment. 這才是常常發生. 他們不明白什麼是正常發展. 一直打撃孩子 弱小心靈. 妳會比較常听到的是 "妳不會教. 孩子這麼壞."
非常举脚赞成！
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ReplyDeletewow ... you are very positive.
ReplyDeleteWhether I feel positive or negative, I will be going through the same thing. So what can I do? I told mum I would have an easy life if I don't have kid. Would she prefer I don't have kid? Of course it's going to be very tough to raise a kid without a maid or the support of family. But hey, when tough gets going, the going gets tough. With the love and support from each other, terry and I can get through this. :)
ReplyDeleteYes, raising kids without helping hands is tough and stressful but I'm sure both of you can do it just fine ^_~
ReplyDeleteThe one good thing raising kids by yourself meant you can 'CONTROL & MANAGE' them by your 'own rules & regulations' without interference!!!
fyc2, exactly.. you can CONTROL & MANGER your OWN rules & regulations. Isnt this what we all looking for :)
ReplyDeleteExactly! But not everyone shares and respect our point of view.I'd better write in Chinese for the benefit of my 'intended reader'. :p
ReplyDelete我們寧願辛苦也不願別人在我們耳邊吱吱喳喳。沒有人天生是做父母的材料。妳就讓我自己去學習吧。妳是個少奶奶，所以妳不覺得自己帶孩子洗奶瓶是自然不過的事情。只要我們一家四口相親相愛，什麼事情我們都能解決。
YESSS!!! I am the QUEEN at my own house but not in KK!!!!!!!!! It much stressful and tougher when staying with my PARENT!!!! They break all my RULES!!! *sigh*
ReplyDeleteWhat I will hate the most is if I'm disciplining my kid, my mum or mum-in-law undermines my authority by saying, '哎呀，不要罵啦。' or even worse, 罵我為什麼要罵她的孫！
ReplyDeleteMost likely they will scold your kids which are quite 'okay' or just their natural develoment. 這才是常常發生.
ReplyDelete他們不明白什麼是正常發展. 一直打撃孩子 弱小心靈.
妳會比較常听到的是 "妳不會教. 孩子這麼壞."
knowing my in-laws, actually our bigger concern is the grandparents spoiling our kid. :p
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